Showing posts with label Career Success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Career Success. Show all posts

Saturday, 25 March 2017

THE 7 COMPONENTS OF INTRAPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE



To lead and manage yourself, you’ve got to develop the 7 components of intrapersonal intelligence. Intrapersonal Intelligence is simply the ability to understand, manage and lead yourself well. The 7 components of intrapersonal intelligence form the foundation for personal and career success.

In order to succeed in your personal and career life, you have to know yourself. Somebody said, “ Know Thyself”. You can’t lead yourself, without understanding yourself and you can’t understand yourself if you don’t study yourself and finally you can’t study yourself without the 7 components of intrapersonal intelligence.

So what the heck are the 7 components of intrapersonal intelligence?




1.    Self-Awareness: this is simply how well you know yourself. It’s you ability to study and know your strengths and weakness. Highly successful people have a high sense of awareness. Because they know who they are, what they like, what they don’t like and where they’re going in life. It guides them to lead themselves well.

2.    Self-Reflection: To know yourself, you have to review your thoughts, intentions, feelings and abilities. By constantly examining yourself, you’re able to know who you are and this help in your daily decision making.

3.    Self-Control: This is the ability to make yourself do the right thing, whether you feel like doing it or not. You control and discipline your feelings and simply do the right thing.

4.    Self-Motivation: To achieve success in life, you need to be motivated from within to do things. You need a vision and a purpose to drive you to do things. Purpose oriented people are highly self motivated people who become leaders and entrepreneurs in the world.

5.    Self-Confidence: To do what must be done, you need confidence and bravery. When you know who you are, you’re brave and that gives you the courage to excel in whatever you’re trying to do.

6.    Self-Esteem: Many people in life look down on themselves with inferiority complex. The think and feel that they’re not “Good enough!” So they don’t achieve much in life. So achieve greater levels of success, you must develop your self esteem and have superiority complex.

7.    Self-Responsibility: If you know yourself, you have self-confidence. These give you the ability wake up and take full responsibility for your life. You make no excuses, you blame no one, but what you do is to simply take responsibility and change your life and circumstances.

By developing the 7 components of intrapersonal intelligence, you will build the foundation for your personal and career success. This will give you the winning edge in your life and in everything you do.

Written By Francis Sabutey,
Content Writer & Maketer,
Accra-Ghana.

Sunday, 19 March 2017

HOW TO DEVELOP A 20 YEAR PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE


In a youth meeting which took place on 19th March, 2017 in my church, Global Evangelical Church-Kotobabi, the speaker was asked to speak to the youths on “ How to Develop a 20 Year Life Plan.” I thought to share the lessons with you all through this blog post.

The message was delivered by a Presbyter in our church who is also a successful banker with Zenith Bank Ghana Limited, Mr. Ewoenam Kpodo. The meeting was well attended with approximately 42 youths of the church.

The speaker spoke on three questions to be used as a guiding tool in helping to plan the next 20 years of your life. 

These questions are:

1. Where am I?
2. Where am I going to or going to be?
4. How do I get there?

Where am I?

The first step in developing a plan for your life is for you to really access where you are in life now. You’ve got to access your strengths and weakness at the moment and ask yourself what you have been sent on this earth to do. 

Establish a purpose and mission for your life. Ask yourself where you are now in relation to your academic, career, financial, ministry, and spiritual and relationships life.


Where am I going to or to be?

The next step to take after you have finally accessed where you are in life now is to “develop a clear mental picture for your life”. The speaker stressed, “One of the worst things that can happen to any man is that you have eyes but don’t have a vision”.

Ask yourself:

 “What do I want to achieve in life”
 “What 10 things am I proud to achieve in life”
 “Where do I want to be in the next 5 years”
“Where do I want to be in the next 10 years”
“Where do I want to be in the next 20 years”

“Dreams are free; Dream big,” says the speaker. It’s good to have a dream, than not having a dream. So dream big and follow your dreams. Pen down your dreams in a journal and it is also good to think about your dreams, so you can register it in your mind.

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“How much the dream has consumed you will determine the level of effort you put into achieving it,” says the speaker. So, think and meditate over the dream until it has sunken deep down into your subconscious mind.


How do I get there?

The very last thing to do  to develop a 20 year plan for your life is to make a provisional strategic plan on how to achieve your dreams and visions. List at least  7 things you will do to achieve any item on your list. And then start immediately to work on your plan to achieve your dreams.

Prior to this you need to understand that “everything we do in life is a preparation,” the speaker noted. Don’t dwell on the "How" and paralyze yourself from achieving the dream. The most important thing is to have the dream, be obsessed about the dream and the “How” will come. Remember, Rome wasn't built in one day.

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In summary, there are 6 things you have to do to develop a 20 year plan for your life:

1. Have a dream.
2. Write down the dream.
3. Be obsessed with the dream.
4. Develop a plan on how to achieve the dream.
5. Work on your plans to achieve the dream.
6. Trust God to guide you to achieve the dream.

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Written by Francis Sabutey,
Content Writer and Content Marketer.
Accra-Ghana.

Saturday, 28 January 2017

17 HABITS YOU MUST DEVELOP IF YOU REALLY WANT TO TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN 2017



“Successful people simply have successful habits,” said Brian Tracy. “You have the brain; you have the energy, but develop the habits of success,” said Warren Buffett. To be successful in life, all you have to do is to focus on developing successful habits!

Everybody wants to be successful. But not everybody wants to pay the price to be successful. If you really want to be success, you must focus on eliminating your habits of failure with the habits of success. Once the habits of success dominate your life, success will follow you like your shadow!

Here is a list of 17 successful habits you have to develop to be successful in 2017:

1.     The Habit of Solitude & Meditation
2.     The Habit of Walking in God’s Ways
3.     The Habit of Goal Setting & Planning
4.   The Habit of Organization
5.     The Habit of Good Healthy Living
6.     The Habit of Building Quality Relationships
7.     The Habit of Financial Management
8.     The Habit of Personal Study
9.     The Habit of Personal Development
10.  The Habit of Progress Evaluation
11.  The Habit of Dedication to Excellence
12.  The Habit of Productivity
13.  The Habit of Walking in Integrity
14.  The Habit of Effective Communication
15.  The Habit of Generosity
16.  The Habit of Creating & Building Financial Assets
17.  The Habit of Time Management

Once you commit to building and developing these habits, the cumulative effective of them will make you successful beyond your wildest imagination. These 17 successful habits will take you to high levels of success and prosperity.


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By Francis Sabutey
Professional Writer, Author & Academic Life Coach,
Founder & Admin of Living Purpose School




Wednesday, 21 December 2016

TOP 10 WAYS TO DEVELOP YOUR EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE



Emotional Intelligence, the ability to understand emotions and express the right emotions is crucial to the academic, career and financial success of students. To be successful in life every students needs to develop his or her emotional intelligence.

Once you understand the components of emotional intelligence, the next step for you to take is to develop your emotional intelligence. And when you take the steps to develop your emotional intelligence, on the long run you’ll become assertive, happy, able to solve problems, empathic and self-aware.

The following are the top 10 ways to develop your emotional intelligence.

1.    Spend time in solitude daily and examine your life.


To develop your emotional intelligence, you can’t afford but to engage in the daily practice of solitude. You have to learn to spend at least 30 mins or more alone in quietness to examine your life, and where you’re on a daily basis.

This develops your self-awareness and enables you to accept yourself and find ways and means to solve problems and achieve your goals and dreams.

2.    Give adequate time to mediation and reading something from the Bible always.


It may sound religious but the Bible has changed the lives of countless number of people. Many great men and women who have achieved notable success, has ascribe more of their secrets to success to lessons learn from the Bible.

Eric Thomas in his video said his life changed when he joined the church. The lessons from the Bible changed his life. Jim Rohn, Les Brown, and many other successful men in history found their inspiration by reading the Bible.

3.     Join religious groups and youth clubs on campus.


It’s not just enough to read the Bible, but you must join fellowships and associations. These fellowships and associations help you to become assertive and self-aware. They enable you to develop a strong sense of morality.


My academic and moral life changed when I joined the church honestly. They taught me values and principles that has become the core of my life. The Bible and Fellowship with Christian organizations has become a great key to my personal and professional success.

4.     Be active in groups and focus on being a leader.


To develop your emotional intelligence, you must focus on being a leader. Leadership has to do with the art of being able to influence others. To be able to do that, you must be assertive, self-aware, problem solving and show empathy.

5.  Read on leadership and focus on practicing leadership values and virtues.


Leadership skills and qualities is what you must crave if you intend to make an impact with your life. Skills such as planning, organization, time management and many others are crucial to success. These skills are top when we come to emotional intelligence.

I read on leadership every week and I focus on developing leadership skills and values. Leadership is simply the ability to influence others. If I want to influence and change lives, I must read and develop leadership skills and values.

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6.     Learn to listen to the feelings behind the words people speak.


I is sad that great leaders and great readers. To develop your emotional intelligence, you must learn to read the emotions behind the actions of people. If actions speak louder than words, then emotions speak louder than actions.

You must learn to listen deeply to people when they talk to you. By doing so you can understand their feelings and share their feelings! Empathy is the skill developed as a result of passionate listening to people.

7.     Seek to understand why people do what they do, not to be understood.


A lot of people want to be understood. But you see, if you really want to be understood, you must learn to understand others. Listing patiently and passionately to people while they speak will help you to understand their feelings, motives and intentions.

8.     Engage yourself in discussions and relating with people.


High level social skills are what emotionally intelligent people have. This skill is developed as a result being social. You can’t have social skills if you don’t socialize. Socializing via face-t-face, on phone, internet and any other media helps to develop your social skills and become more emotionally intelligent.

9.     Master courage and ask questions confidently in class and groups.


Fear is one those feelings that slow down emotional intelligence. When your fear goes up, your intelligence will come down. So to develop emotional intelligence, you must learn to be courageous, act boldly and confidently. These helps you to become more emotionally intelligent.

       10.  Learn to control your feelings and motivate yourself to do difficult things.


Self-motivation is key! Ability to motivate yourself to keep going when the going gets tough is a sign of high emotional intelligence. You must learn to encourage and motivate yourself with graceful words that puts springs into your body and fire in your bones.

Monday, 19 December 2016

HOW TO USE THE POWER OF IMAGINATION TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS




What if you can change your life in one day, what would you like to change? What if you can achieve your dreams in one day, what dream would you achieve? Once you know what you want to change or achieve in your life, then you must apply the magic secret: the power of imagination to it!

Napoleon Bonaparte said, “Imagination rules the world”! Your imagination rules your life. In fact, you become exactly what you imagine yourself to be. A scripture in the Bible said, “…and nothing they have imagined to do will be impossible for them”. The very first step to making your dreams a reality is to imagine it happen. You must see it, feel it, keep it, imbibe it and get consumed by it!

Now imagination is a clear mental picture of an outcome that we have in the mind.  Imagination takes place in the mind and operates by the Law of the Picture as stated in John Maxwell’s book, 12 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, “People see, people do!” You begin to do what you continuously see and imagine in your mind—that’s why vision is important!

The Law of Correspondence as stated in Brian Tracy’s Book, “100 Irrefutable Laws of Business Success says, “As within so without”. When you imagine something and keep it in your mind, that picture goes into your subconscious mind. When that picture gets into your subconscious mind and stays there for long, it begins to take root in your mind.

Once this picture gains root in your mind, it begins to control and cause you to do the very things that you must do so that picture becomes your present reality. To achieve your dream, you must deploy the power of imagination. So today, we shall learn five keys to use the power of imagination to achieve your dreams.




1.     See it: See the dream in your mind. Picture it! Create a mental picture of the exact thing that you want in your mind. Make sure you have a clear picture of the very thing you want to achieve in your mind. Do this exercise as often as you can!

2.     Feel it: Not only must you see it, you must also feel it. Feel as though you have already got it. Generate an unusual feeling towards the very thing that you want! Your feelings are very powerful. It is your feeling that gives power to your vision! Your feelings push the vision you have in your mind into your subconscious mind!

3.     Keep it: Now, you need to keep that picture and that feeling in your mind. You’ve got to keep seeing it and keep feeling it! Don’t stop seeing it and don’t stop feeling as though you have gotten it—keep at it! The power you do it, the more it forms root in your subconscious mind!

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4.     Imbibe it: Not only must you keep seeing and feeling it; you must also imbibe and ingrained that picture into your mind through the process of meditation. Meditation is the act of pondering about something—thinking deeply and talking about it undertone! As long as you do this, you cause that thought to get ingrained in your subconscious mind!

5.     Consume it: This is the final stage in the imagination process. Become consumed about the picture you have in your mind. If you go through the process up to the fourth step, the final step will follow naturally. At this very stage, you develop an unusual obsession and hunger for your dream that you can’t afford but to get it! This is where persistence, diligence and determination are born!

I trust by applying these simple principles of imagination you can be able to translate your dream to reality. 

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THE 5 COMPONENTS OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE



Emotional intelligence remains a great pillar and foundation for career and financial success. Emotional intelligence accounts for 95% of career and financial success. Students must therefore focus on the development of their emotional intelligence inasmuch as they develop their academic intelligence.

To develop the emotional intelligence, we have to first understand the components of intelligence and how they operate. Once we understand how emotional intelligence operates, we can use the knowledge and understanding to develop it.

Emotional intelligence is simply your ability to understand and handing your feelings very well; emotions such as love, hate, anger, fear, faith, hatred, envy, empathy, patience, and others. Your success in life is dependent on your ability to understand and use these feelings appropriately.

Emotional Intelligence can further be divided into two parts:

1.    Intra-Personal Intelligence
2.    Inter-Personal Intelligence

Intrapersonal Intelligence: This is your ability to understand and handle your own feelings appropriately. It involves your ability manage your feelings and achieve your goals and dreams. This accounts for your personal success in life.

Interpersonal Intelligence: This is your ability to understand and handle the feelings of others appropriately. It involves your ability read and respond to the emotions of people. The more you understand and respond to the feelings of others well, the better you’ll behave towards them.

To be able to understand and handle feelings well, you’ve got to understand the 5 components of emotional intelligence:

1.    Ability to Perceive Emotions
2.    Ability to Control Emotions
3.    Ability to Evaluate Emotions
4.    Ability to Express Emotions
5.    Ability to Handle Emotions





Ability to Perceive Emotions

Your emotional intelligence begins with your ability to recognize and define your own emotions and that of others. You must know clearly what emotions are being displayed at a particular point in time. If you don’t know it, you can’t manage it.

To be able to do this, you must understand and know the signs and signals of various emotions—love, grieve, hatred, envy, jealousy, bitterness, fear, boldness, empathy, sympathy. You must be able to recognize the emotion at hand and define it clearly.

Ability to Evaluate Emotions


Once you’re able to perceive the emotion, you must evaluate it. You must find out the cause of that emotion and how it is affecting you or others. If you can’t evaluate your emotions, your emotions will run your life without your knowledge.

You’ve got to ask yourself: Where from these feeling? How come? How is this feeling affecting me? Why am I feeling like this? Once you ask these questions, it will force to evaluate and understand the emotion; this will lead you to control it.

Ability to Control Emotions


Once you understand your emotions through evaluation, control it. Remember, if you don’t control your emotions, your emotions will control you. So you must learn to control your emotions once you understand what’s happening to you.

Now, you can’t control someone else’s emotions, but you can control your own emotions. However, you can influence the emotions of others. Your success is in your own hands and it’s in your ability to control yourself and express the right emotions at the right time.

Ability to Express Emotions


There’s nothing as evil as understanding your emotions and not controlling yourself to express the right emotions that help you to achieve the right results. You’re in charge of your emotions, you can choose to restrain the emotion of anger and express the emotion of patience.

For example when somebody hurts you, what do you do? You have a choice: you can choose to express the emotion of hatred towards the person and hate him and her or you have the ability to express the emotion of love and forgive the person. The choice is yours!

Your decisions finally determine the emotions you express at a particular moment. Your understanding of your emotions helps you to express the right emotions.

Ability to Handle Emotions of Others


You can’t control other people’s feelings, but you can handle and influence their feelings through your actions and reactions. Newton’s Law of Motion said, “Actions and reactions are equal and opposite”.

Well emotion is another form of motion—e-motion. Emotion is simply feelings in motion. When your feelings are at work, that’s emotion! And emotional intelligence simply means your ability to understand and put the right feelings to work so that you can get the right results.

If you understand the feelings of others at the moment, you can handle their feelings by expressing the right actions and emotions that will influence them to behave and act well. Your emotions affect the actions and reacts of other.

You can make people act well by expressing the right emotions. You can also make people act wrongly by expressing the wrong emotions. The way people react towards you is dependent on the emotions you express and the actions that follow it! The choice is yours!!!

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1.    SOCIAL & EMOTIONAL LEARNING PROGRAM
2.    THE E-BOOK: 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL STUDENTS

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